1 00:00:01,110 --> 00:00:08,430 John is stuck in a cycle of behaviors that are depleting his energy and hurting his mood as the figure 2 00:00:08,940 --> 00:00:16,980 demonstrates his habit affect his mood and his energy, which in turn perpetuate his habits. 3 00:00:17,910 --> 00:00:24,420 For example, John's caffeine consumption interferes with his sleep, which makes him tired and unmotivated 4 00:00:24,420 --> 00:00:25,200 to exercise. 5 00:00:25,650 --> 00:00:33,750 The lack of exercise doesn't help his mood or his energy levels, which compels him to continue relying 6 00:00:33,750 --> 00:00:36,160 on caffeine for energy in the daytime. 7 00:00:37,020 --> 00:00:43,840 On top of these unhelpful habits, John consistently criticizes himself. 8 00:00:44,460 --> 00:00:50,220 What would we think if John had a life coach who was directing him to act in these ways? 9 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:56,900 We would probably think he had a terrible coach guiding him to continue these bad habits. 10 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,060 We might even wonder if the coach really cared about John. 11 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:10,620 And yet the reality is that in a very real way, John was acting as his own coach and was giving himself 12 00:01:10,620 --> 00:01:12,310 the instructions he was following. 13 00:01:12,780 --> 00:01:19,320 Let's consider some of the most important ways to take care of ourselves that help us feel good and 14 00:01:19,320 --> 00:01:20,910 move toward our goals.